Nuschler121 - Villa Rica, GA
July 28, 2018 9:23 a.m.
As an MD we are finding that the major problem with easily attainable pornography--ability to watch it free 24/7--is that it becomes nearly impossible for young men to have satisfying sex with “just” their partner. These young men actually NEED pornography to become turned on...that just being with a partner isn’t enough stimuli to get an erection then completing the sex act.
This becomes extremely frustrating for the partner as in “Wait aren’t I sufficiently “sexy” enough to make you pay attention to just me? Why must you watch pornography too?”
And therein lies the main problem with pornography. The guy needs more and more stimuli just to get an erection. The partner thinks something is wrong with THEM.
We see this with adventure seekers. It’s not enough to hike through Yosemite, NOW, young men need to climb Half Dome WITHOUT ropes and pitons. Only free style climbing provides enough excitement. BASE jumping off bridges and cliffs must have significant risk before it’s “fun” anymore.
If one can no longer engage in sex with full enjoyment WITHOUT pornography then there IS a problem. Any interference in normal sex with one’s partner presents a problem.
This becomes extremely frustrating for the partner as in “Wait aren’t I sufficiently “sexy” enough to make you pay attention to just me? Why must you watch pornography too?”
And therein lies the main problem with pornography. The guy needs more and more stimuli just to get an erection. The partner thinks something is wrong with THEM.
We see this with adventure seekers. It’s not enough to hike through Yosemite, NOW, young men need to climb Half Dome WITHOUT ropes and pitons. Only free style climbing provides enough excitement. BASE jumping off bridges and cliffs must have significant risk before it’s “fun” anymore.
If one can no longer engage in sex with full enjoyment WITHOUT pornography then there IS a problem. Any interference in normal sex with one’s partner presents a problem.